So I’m a stay at home mum to a 9 months old very good girl. Which is not the problem. Before my daughter was born we hired a house keeper to help with the cleaning and ironing. She’s staying with us full time.
She’s very good with the cleaning and I couldn’t be happier because having someone else to take care of the house gives me full time to concentrate on my daughter. Now this person in the past has been taking my baby’s clothes without asking (I always give her the ones Emily’s not using anymore myself) and this is been going on for a while until I had a serious word with her and she eventually stopped.
She doesn’t speak any italian (we live in italy) and very little english so I find hard to communicate. What I know though is that she’s a serious threatening to my baby’s health. She keeps putting random things into her playpen (50 cents coins, sharp or very small objects, antique dolls from my collection) and doesn’t matter how many times I tell her not to put anything in there I still find the most random objects in it. I always make sure I check but I know that one day either me or someone else will put her down distractedly and something bad will happen.Playpen should be a safe space for a baby. Also the other day I sat my daughter on her highchair to get her lunch ready. After And I swear I could tell her/shout for days and still get no result. Should I send her away? Because i really feel bad about it but what else can I do?

Repossession